testimonials

I come from a family of hard-working people. I'm not the one to mope, never liked to admit defeat or talk about my feelings. Marriage, just like the office, is a job, and job's gotta be done. I thought my wife knew that, until one day she said she never felt loved and wanted a divorce!

I understood then I had problems with emotions and intimacy. A coworker gave me the Spiritus Group's card, claimed the guy there saved his relationship. It was hard for me to accept help, but talking to my coach turned out to be surprisingly easy. Took time, but it was with him when

I let myself cry for the first time in my life! Personal coaching opened my eyes to how much I was missing, being emotionally unavailable. When Janice, my wife, saw the changes I underwent, she decided to give me another chance. We spent hours finally really talking! I feel like a new man – in life and in bed. 

I used to think business is a man's world, so I acted like a man. I was harsh and unforgiving. My coworkers hated me, but the attitude seemed to pay off – I got frequent raises and promotions and whoever didn't respect me, at least feared me. I never even wore a dress to work! But something wasn't right. I felt like I'm oppressing myself, hiding behind a mask that stripped me of my own personality. There came a point I couldn't remember the last time a guy showed interest in me.

I was valued as a down-to-earth, painfully factual professional, but nobody seemed to notice I could be charming as well! I was too afraid that making changes would undermine my reputation though, so I decided to talk to someone. And I'm so glad it was my coach at The Spiritus Group! His coaching program for business women taught me so much about the gender-related issues in the industry. Despite my fears, I learned that I didn't have to let go of my feminine side, neither in life.

Ever since I finished my undergrad, I worked for an international corporation. From an intern to an assistant to a specialist, I slowly built my career and eventually got promoted to a team lead. At first my friends and family were impressed, but

I could feel myself burning out with every day spent over Excel tables... not to mention I quickly realized there was no further way up for me there! I was 36 and stuck. I devoted my best years to a company which couldn't care less for my progress! I didn't know what to do and my loved ones couldn't understand why I don't like my job. Finding The Spiritus Group's website was a stroke of luck. My coach helped me understand that switching corporations wasn't going to solve my problems – I had to walk out of that world completely! It was surely scary, but thanks to my coach's guidance

I realized that I was still a wanted specialist and I could use my knowledge, but this time on my terms – as a business owner. The strategic planning we did together resulted in not only a clear plan from top to bottom, but also in a great boost to my self-esteem. Now I'm my own boss and I couldn't be happier.

I consulted with The Spiritus Group late in my career, reluctantly, as I doubted you could teach an old dog any new practice tricks, but I needn't have worried as each session with my coach produced at least two to three gems I was able to use in my practice right away. He was also able to steer me in the right direction when seemingly intractable problems cropped up. Yet, at the same time, he was also quick to point out the right actions, work arounds, and decisions I made on my own between sessions.

What I was looking for in terms of intuitive, connected, powerful and masculine life coach, I found in my coach through The Spiritus Group. He has a way of seeing the whole person, asking the right questions and offering just the right amount of support as I made changes in my life. For first time in my life I really have a vision for what I want to accomplish and the type of relationships I want to have.